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Sharing a Shawl

Posted on January 1, 2011
Children at a construction site on a January 1, 2011
Sharing a Shawl

I was walking back home today after my usual bird round. Managed to click Hoopoe, Black Redstart, Myna and a few more. There is this construction site on the way. As I was walking by, I saw the two children on the right squeezing further to cover  the third child with their shawl. I hesitate quite a lot in clicking people, but my hands moved on their own and I clicked a picture. Then decided to walk home, get a few warm clothes and give it to them. I know you too would have done the same, made a small gesture. The right most child is a girl and eldest of the lot. Handed it to her, her reaction was strange, quite disbelieving I would say.

I was not sure that I would write about this, but as much I would try to ignore, I kept think about this picture. So, I decided I would blog.

Note to self- Whenever you end up taking a picture like this, think hard about what can you give back?

6 thoughts on “Sharing a Shawl”

  1. nilesh says:
    January 1, 2011 at 8:52 pm

    now wondering what was her reaction ? if she refused to take the shawl

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  2. Meena says:
    January 1, 2011 at 9:57 pm

    Poignant Picture! And I share your feeling.
    I remember reading an article about a photographer who was reporting from Somalia . He has spoken about how his camera would capture images of the dead and the dying, and the angst of not being able to do anything to change the situation and the want to do so…

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  3. derek says:
    January 1, 2011 at 10:22 pm

    Beautiful,the shot and the humanity of your words.

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  4. Mridula says:
    January 1, 2011 at 10:58 pm

    Nilesh, I had anticipated that she may refuse, as it has happened to me a few times. But that has not stopped me from trying again if I feel I can do something, however small. And when I say the girl showed disbelief I mean in a pleasant surprise kind of a way, she let me wrap her in a jacket which was too big for her but hopefully warmer than what she had. And she walked with the rest of the clothes to her mother.

    Meena, thank you, yes I thought I would walk away and not take a picture but then I just took one, felt guilty, tried to do something and still feel the situation is too much complex and bigger than me, thanks for understanding.

    Derek thank you, I remember I tried giving money to some people walking on a road because they helped me get my car out of a ditch by pushing it out of it. They just waved me off, giving me that ‘crazy woman driver’ look! But mercifully they did not take offence. 😀

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  5. chitra says:
    January 4, 2011 at 9:41 am

    Good gesture Mridula, I missed some posts. as I was travelling

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  6. Tarun says:
    January 15, 2011 at 10:30 pm

    Reality bites…and such naked one does

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I am Mridula Dwivedi and I started this blog in 2005. It has been an amazing ride. I have visited 33 countries till date! I have worked with many tourism boards and prominent travel companies. My blog was featured on the BBC and the Guardian.

I did my Ph.D. from IIT Kanpur. I worked full time in academics till 2015! I quit my job as a professor, thinking I will take a break for one year, which turned into five.

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